🐾Gatsby’s Guide to Joy: Lessons from a Vertically Challenged Legend🐾

Gatsby the Great and his signature strut!

My name is Gatsby. I don’t have a tail, but I’ve never let that stop me from wagging my whole soul. I’m a corgi of conviction, a connoisseur of cozy, and—if I do say so myself—a joy expert. My human, Jen, taught me love. I taught her the sacred art of crust-sharing.  It’s a balanced relationship.

While I’m not currently looking for crumbs under Jen’s desk like I used to, that doesn’t mean I’m gone. I’m still part of every daydream, every memory, every giggle she stifles when she thinks of me snoring like a miniature freight train.

So here it is—my no-nonsense, stubby-legged, full-hearted guide to joy. Take what you need. Leave a snack if you’re feeling generous.

Greet Every Morning Like It’s Bacon O’Clock

Mornings are sacred. Roll, stretch, breathe deep like there’s a smell of jerky in the air. Joy starts with the right entrance, and I recommend a dramatic yawn and a confident head tilt to set the tone.

Strut With Purpose (Even If You’re Lost)

Direction is optional. Swagger is mandatory. Whether you’re walking into the living room or the unknown, do it like you meant to go there all along. Wiggle what you’ve got—even if you’re built like a loaf of bread.

Rest Is Not Laziness—It’s Strategy

Napping isn’t giving up. It’s recharging your sparkle. The world needs your best self, and your best self probably needs a 17-minute nap in a sunbeam with one ear flopped dramatically.

Sniff Things. Investigate Joy.

You never know where delight is hiding—your favorite blanket, a passing breeze, the mailbox. Be curious. Sniff it all. Life rewards those who explore.

Love Loudly, Snack Often

If you love someone, lean into them like you’re trying to merge bodies. And if there’s a snack? Take it. Take it with gratitude and an expectant gaze that says, “You know you can’t say no to this face.”

Stick Close to the People Who Feel Like Home

Joy isn’t just shared snacks and naps. It’s people who see you, who let you be soft and silly and stubborn. If you’re lucky enough to find someone like that, stay close. Bonus points if they smell like vanilla.

Delegation Is an Art Form

Let’s clear this up: I didn’t fetch. I inspired others to fetch. Joy isn’t always about chasing—it’s about knowing when to recline dramatically and let the ball come to you.

Even when life’s uncertain—even if you’re separated from your person, your porch, your sacred snack nook—joy is still out there. In memory. In movement. In mischief. In the soft hum of hope you carry for the next time you’ll share a blanket, a bite, or a breath with someone who knows you.

I’m still here. Always. Tail or no tail.

—Gatsby 🐾

*This post is a love letter to the best friend I’ve ever known. Whether he’s curled beside me or just living in the warmest corners of my memory, Gatsby’s joy is something I’ll carry forever—and share with the world, one story at a time.

The Power of Connection: How Being Open to New People & Experiences Can Transform Your Life

There’s something magical about saying “yes”—not just to invitations or opportunities, but to the idea that life is meant to be experienced beyond our comfort zones.

I used to be someone who kept my circle tight, my routines predictable, and my walls high. Moving 400 miles away to Lexington, Kentucky? That was a wild leap, one that pushed me into uncertainty. I was lonely, unsure, and questioning whether I made the right choice. But something happened in that space of unknowns —I started to open up.

And let me tell you—it changed everything.

The Power of Saying "Yes"

So many moments in life are shaped by one simple decision: to be open or to retreat. When I chose openness, I started meeting people, stepping into new spaces, embracing unfamiliar experiences.

I became a “dress girlie” —which, trust me, was not the vibe before. I started going out downtown, making friends, hitting the pool —all things that felt impossible before I gave myself permission to say yes to them.

Looking back, I realize that every meaningful moment came from a connection I allowed myself to make—from casual chats to deep friendships, every experience added something real to my life.

Finding Home in Routine: Gatsby & The Park

Even in the hardest moments, routine became my anchor. Every weekend, Gatsby and I went to the park—our little ritual that made Lexington feel less foreign, more familiar.

It wasn’t just about fresh air or exercise; it was about consistency, something steady amid the chaos of transition. Sticking to that routine made an unfamiliar place feel like home, giving me a sense of comfort and stability when everything else was changing.

And in those weekends? We met people—casual smiles, quick conversations, familiar faces that slowly turned into connection.

It reminded me that even when life feels completely new, finding small ways to stay grounded is everything.

Networking vs. Genuine Connection

There’s a difference between meeting people and truly connecting with them. I’ve walked into spaces where networking felt forced and transactional, and others where the energy was real, supportive, and empowering —like the women entrepreneur spaces I’m exploring now.

But honestly? Some of my best conversations and most unlikely friendships didn’t happen at curated events or planned meetups. They happened in the back of an Uber —fleeting moments with strangers who, for those brief rides, shared stories, laughter, and insights that stuck with me long after I stepped out of the car.

There’s something about those unpredictable connections —the ones that happen when you least expect them—that remind me just how much we’re meant to engage with the world around us.

The key? Finding the people who align with you. Not every connection will be deep, but when you meet the right ones? Everything shifts.

Life-Changing Moments From Being Open

Some of the best things in my life have come from openness —new friendships, career opportunities, personal transformations. Even small things, like discovering my love for dresses, stemmed from saying “yes” to something different.

I see it now: connection is the key to growth.  Whether it’s personal, professional, or just finding joy in the everyday, being open to people, places, and experiences will always lead you somewhere worth going.

Step Into the Future With Openness

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that you never know how one conversation, one decision, or one simple yes can change everything.

Stay open. Meet people. Try new things. Step into spaces that scare you just a little.  Because trust me— the best moments are waiting on the other side of fear.

Authenticity Isn’t Up for Debate: Owning Your Choices

Authenticity Isn’t Up for Debate

A few days ago, I was at work when a male coworker casually asked me, “Why do you wear makeup? Isn’t that too much effort?”

It caught me off guard—not because I haven’t heard comments like this before, but because it was yet another reminder of how often people feel entitled to question personal choices that have absolutely nothing to do with them.

What made it even more ridiculous? I wasn’t even wearing a full face of makeup that day—just concealer, blush, and mascara. The essentials. Nothing elaborate, nothing time-consuming, just a simple routine that made me feel put-together and confident. And yet, somehow, even that was “too much effort” in his eyes.

Let’s get something straight—I don’t wear makeup for anyone but me. I don’t dress up to meet anyone else’s expectations, and I certainly don’t need to justify my choices to someone who sees effort as an inconvenience rather than an act of self-expression.

Authenticity Is Personal

We live in a world where people are quick to judge anything outside of their own routine, their own comfort zone. But authenticity isn’t about catering to someone else’s preferences; it’s about embracing who you are, fully and unapologetically. Whether that means rocking bold makeup, dressing however you please, pursuing interests others don’t understand, or simply existing without explanation—that is your choice.

There’s power in deciding how you present yourself, and even more power in refusing to shrink just because someone else doesn’t see the value in it.

The Strength in Self-Expression

For me, dressing up and wearing makeup isn’t about vanity—it’s about confidence, creativity, and showing up in the world the way I want to. Maybe for someone else, self-expression looks different—like wearing whatever feels comfortable, embracing natural beauty, or curating a personal aesthetic that reflects their spirit.

Whatever it is, it’s valid. It’s worthy. And most importantly, it’s not up for debate.

Final Thought: Own It

People will always have opinions. Some will question, some will judge, and some may even try to undermine your confidence. But at the end of the day, the only opinion that truly matters is your own.

So whether it’s makeup, fashion, career choices, or simply existing boldly in your truth—own it. Show up for yourself, unapologetically, because you deserve to live freely, without needing permission.

Celebrating the Alpha Women Who Raised Us (and the Ones We Carry in Our Hearts)

Mother’s Day isn’t just about flowers and brunch (though, let’s be real, moms deserve both). It’s a day to honor the alpha women who shaped us—the ones who balanced grit with grace, who taught us how to walk tall (and hold a spoon), love deeply, and never settle for less than we deserve.

The Strength of a Mother

Whether she was gentle or fierce, traditional or unconventional, a mother’s love is transformative. It’s the kind of love that teaches resilience—whether through late-night pep talks, tough love lessons, or simply showing up when the world felt unsteady.

Mothers are architects of confidence—the first ones to remind us that we can stand on our own, chase the life we want, and trust ourselves in ways no one else can. And let’s not forget the mastery of side-eye—an art form passed down for generations.

To the Women Who Love Fiercely

Motherhood takes many forms, and today, we honor them all:

- To the mothers who raised Alpha women—who instilled strength, wisdom, and self-worth in the next generation.

- To the single moms—who do it all, love with limitless capacity, and carry their families with unwavering strength.

- To the women who aspire to be moms someday—whose hearts already overflow with love, even if the journey is still unfolding.

- To the fur moms—who pour their love into four-legged family members with boundless devotion.

- To the ones who have lost their moms—who carry their love in memories, stories, and lessons that will never fade.

- To the ones who never really had a mother’s love—who are redefining what love, family, and care truly mean.

So today, let’s raise a glass (or a chew toy) to every kind of mom—because nurturing, protecting, and loving fiercely will always be the mark of an Alpha woman.

Happy Mother’s Day! 🖤

The True Alpha Female: Standing Tall, Moving Smart, and Owning Every Step

The Choice to Walk Alone

From the outside, people see strength —the woman who moves through life without hesitation, handling business, making decisions, and never asking for permission. What they don’t see is the reality behind it—the moments where I had no choice but to go it alone, and the times I chose to because it was better than shrinking myself for people who couldn’t keep up.

Being an Alpha Female isn’t about being untouchable —it’s about knowing that, if necessary, I can handle my own battles, stand on my own, and thrive regardless of the circumstances. Some people say being alone is lonely.  I say it’s clarity.

The Silent Power—Calculated, Not Chaotic

There’s a misconception that Alpha Females have to be the loudest, the boldest, the most aggressive presence in every room.  But real power?  It doesn’t scream—it speaks with purpose.

Alpha energy isn’t about taking up space just for the sake of it —it’s about knowing exactly when to move, when to speak, and when to let silence do the work for you. Strength isn’t always loud. The most powerful women don’t waste energy proving their worth—they already know it.

The Struggles, The Wins, The Reality Check

The journey hasn’t been effortless. Some seasons of life have felt like one fight after another —work stress, life transitions, moments of burnout, and the frustrating reality of having to push forward when quitting would have been easier.

But here’s the thing about Alpha Females—we don’t just survive. We evolve.

Small wins matter. Landing new opportunities. Navigating hard transitions. Recognizing personal growth, even when it doesn’t feel flashy.  These moments remind me that being strong doesn’t mean never struggling —it means getting back up, again and again, no matter how many times life tries to knock you down.

Love, Dating, and the Art of Weeding Out the Weak

And then there’s dating—the minefield, the entertainment, the psychological case study that keeps proving why some men crumble under real female power.

Being an Alpha Female in relationships means I don’t entertain mediocrity, insecurity, or men who fold the second they realize they can’t control me. Weak men don’t survive here—because they thrive on submission, and submission isn’t in my DNA. I want a true partner and equal. And won’t settle for anything less!

If a man can’t handle a woman who’s sharp, independent, self-sufficient, and refuses to settle, he’s simply not the right man. Strength doesn’t intimidate the right ones—it inspires them.

The Alpha Female Mindset—Unapologetic and Unshaken

Being this kind of woman isn’t always easy. Some people will misinterpret it, assuming you’re too tough, too confident, too unwilling to play the “softer” role society expects.

But the real ones see the truth—being an Alpha Female is about knowing your value, your vision, and your non-negotiables. And once you know that? You stop lowering your standards just to make other people comfortable.

So here’s to the women who stand tall, love boldly, and refuse to settle for less than they deserve. The world adjusts for us—we don’t adjust for it.

Chronicles of a Hopeless Romantic: A Masterclass in Almosts

If cosmic timing had an HR department, I’d be filing a formal complaint. Because for years now, I’ve been stuck in an endless loop of almosts—almost relationships, almost love stories, almost something worth my damn time.

It starts the same way every time: intrigue, possibility, a glimmer of something real. And then—like clockwork—things unravel. Ghosting, lukewarm affection, the dreaded “lol” text response when I pour my soul into a conversation. If there were degrees in disappointment, I’d be tenured.

I’m convinced that the universe has me on some kind of karmic dating experiment—how long can she hold onto hope? How many red flags can she ignore before she finally calls it? (Spoiler: too many.)

And yet, I keep believing. Maybe that’s my fatal flaw. Maybe it’s my secret superpower. Because despite every setback, despite every moment where I wonder if I’m just meant to be the main character in a cautionary tale, I refuse to settle for anything less than real.

So here I am—writing this, laughing through the heartbreak, collecting my honorary PhD in emotional resilience. Still waiting for the love story, still navigating the plot twists, still keeping the faith that maybe, just maybe, cosmic timing will finally decide to stop ghosting me.

Cue the Taylor Swift playlist…

When It Rains, It Pours: The Unforgiving Storm of Life (and How We Survive It Anyway)

Ever had one of those weeks—scratch that, months—where life decides it’s going to throw everything at you at once? Like some kind of cruel cosmic joke? No warning, no mercy, just a relentless downpour of chaos.

One bad thing happens, and you think, Okay, I got this. Then another. And another. Until suddenly you’re standing there, soaked in stress, wondering if the universe is personally trying to test your endurance.

If that sounds familiar, let me just say: I see you. I know how exhausting it is when every corner of your life feels like it’s caving in—whether it’s financial struggles, health scares, disappointments in the people you thought would show up for you, or just an overwhelming sense that you’re fighting this battle alone.

The truth is, life doesn’t always play fair. And sometimes, no matter how hard you try, no matter how much good energy you put into the world, it still rains.

But here’s the thing—storms don’t last forever. And no matter how relentless the downpour feels right now, there are ways to push through it.

Drowning in the Storm

You ever feel like life has a secret pact with Murphy’s Law? Like, the moment things start looking up, they immediately crash back down?

That’s exactly how it’s felt for me lately. The kind of pressure where you wake up every day bracing yourself for what’s next, knowing full well the hits aren’t done coming. It’s exhausting. It’s infuriating. And honestly? It’s lonely.

Because let’s be real—when you’re drowning in stress, disappointment, or grief, most people don’t stick around for the hard parts. They’ll be there for the fun, the easy, the Instagram-worthy moments. But when life really tests you? The crowd thins out fast.

And suddenly, it’s just you—standing in the storm, soaked to the bone, wondering how much more you can take.

The Art of Surviving (Even When You’re Over It)

So how do you deal? How do you push forward when you’re convinced life is actively working against you?

Accept the Chaos (Temporarily, Not Permanently)

There’s this instinct we have to try and “fix” things immediately. But sometimes, you don’t get that option. Sometimes, all you can do is acknowledge that life is a mess right now—and remind yourself that it’s temporary.

That’s the key. Temporary.

Find Small Wins (Even if They're Tiny)

When life is pouring down on you, expecting big victories is unrealistic. But finding tiny moments of progress? That’s doable. Did you get up today? That’s something. Did you handle one stressful thing, even though there’s more to go? That’s a win.

In survival mode, the small things matter more than ever.

Hold Onto Hope (Even When It Feels Stupid)

Listen, I know—when you’re buried in problems, being told to “stay hopeful” feels like someone handing you a broken umbrella in a hurricane.

But hope isn’t about denying reality. It’s about refusing to let the worst moments convince you they’ll last forever.

You will come out the other side. And one day, you’ll look back and realize you made it through what once felt impossible.

Find Support (Even When It’s Hard to Ask for It)

Not everyone will show up for you the way you deserve. And frankly? That sucks.

But I promise, someone out there wants to help. A friend, a coworker, even a total stranger who sees you struggling at the right time. Let yourself lean on the people who do care—even if it’s not the ones you expected.

The Silver Linings (Yes, Even in This Mess)

I won’t hit you with some “everything happens for a reason” speech, because honestly? Sometimes bad things happen for no reason at all.

But what I do believe is that we are stronger than we think. And if there’s one thing life’s storms teach us, it’s how deeply resilient we are—even when we feel like we have nothing left to give.

At some point, the storm will break. Things will shift. Life will let up. And you’ll walk out of it knowing that even in the worst moments, you survived.

Final Thoughts

If you’re in the middle of your own storm, I see you. I know how heavy it is, how unfair it feels, how desperately you need a break.

But I also know that you won’t be stuck in this forever.

We don’t always get to control the storm, but we do get to decide how we move through it—whether we let it drown us, or whether we hold onto whatever strength we have left and push forward anyway.

And one day? The storm will end. The weight will lift. And you’ll look back, knowing you made it through.

So keep going. Keep fighting.

Because the rain will stop.

10 Things Every New Corgi Owner Should Know (That No One Tells You)

So you’re thinking about getting a corgi.

Or maybe you already have one and you’re wondering why your house looks like a fur bomb exploded and your once peaceful life now feels like a daily episode of “Survivor: Corgi Edition.”

Don’t worry. I’m here to spill the real tea—the stuff no one puts on those perfectly curated breeder websites.

Welcome to the magical (and slightly chaotic) world of corgi ownership.

Here’s what you really need to know:

1. They Are Pocket-Sized Tornadoes

Sure, they look like fuzzy loaves of bread, but inside? A corgi is 80% sass, 15% pure chaos, and 5% floof.

They were literally bred to herd cattle— meaning if you’re not moving fast enough, they’ll happily herd you and your friends…and your Amazon delivery driver.

Tip: Invest in some comfy sneakers. You’re about to get your steps in.

2. Shedding Season? It’s All Year Long, Baby.

There is no “shedding season.” There is only “shedding life”. I had to vacuum daily to keep the Gatsby’s hair to a minimum…on top of monthly grooming sessions!

You will find corgi glitter (aka fur) on your clothes, your couch, your toothbrush, inside your coffee mug—it’s a lifestyle now.

Pro move: Buy a good vacuum. Then buy a backup. And maybe a third, just to be safe.

3. They Are Smarter Than You (And They Know It)

Corgis are wicked smart. Too smart. Like, “could-hack-your-WiFi-if-they-had-opposable-thumbs” smart.

This means they’ll learn tricks super fast—but they’ll-also learn how to manipulate you even faster.

Prepare for: Adorable standoffs where you find yourself negotiating bedtime with a 25-pound dog.

4. The Butt Wiggle Is Real…And It’s Powerful

There is no bad day that can’t be healed by the sacred corgi butt wiggle.

It’s like a tiny, wobbly dance of pure joy and you will be powerless against it.

It’s impossible not to smile once Gatsby starts wiggling his butt!

Honestly, someone should bottle that energy and sell it as an antidepressant.

5. They’re Tiny Bodyguards

Despite their short stature and loaf-like appearance, corgis are fearless.

They will defend your home against evil things like mailmen, falling leaves, suspicious rocks, and that one neighbor they just don’t vibe with.

Warning: Your doorbell will never ring in peace again.

6. Corgis Are Velcro Dogs

If you thought you could go to the bathroom alone ever again—HA.

Corgis have a deeply held belief that your life must be supervised at all times. You are their human. You will be accompanied.

On the bright side: You’ll never be lonely again. Ever.

7. Their Health Needs Are No Joke

Because of their adorable, stretched-out little bodies, corgis are prone to back problems.

They also have a particular talent for getting chubby if you’re not careful.

Be prepared to:

• Learn about low impact exercises

• Become that person who talks about dog joint supplements at parties

8. They Have Opinions. So Many Opinions.

Corgis are vocal. About everything.

You’ll get full commentary on your cooking, your outfit choices, your questionable life decisions…all delivered via barks, grumbles, and judgmental side-eyes.

It’s basically like living with a tiny, fur-covered critic.

9. Travel Plans? Better Plan Around the Corgi.

Corgis are adventurers at heart, but they also have very specific needs.

Traveling means thinking about dog-friendly hotels, car safety gear (they will attempt to drive if you don’t secure them), and mapping out potty stops with military precision. Gatsby hates riding in the car and especially ferry rides!

Pro tip: Always pack three times more treats than you think you’ll need.

10. One Corgi Is Never Enough

Ask any corgi owner.

First, you say, “I just want one!” Then…six months later you’re researching second dogs because clearly your loaf needs a side loaf. We got another corgi a few years after we got Gatsby!

It’s called a “corgi cluster,” and it’s very real.

(No shame. Welcome to the family.)

Final Thoughts

Owning a corgi is not just having a pet—it’s signing up for a lifelong journey full of laughter, stubbornness, love, and an endless supply of fur.

You’re not just getting a dog.

You’re gaining a bossy, hilarious, fiercely loyal best friend…and a lifetime of tiny, happy adventures.

Trust me— you’ll never look at life (or your vacuum cleaner) the same way again. I always joke I am collecting DNA samples to clone Gatsby.

Pet Insurance: Because Your Furry Friend’s Health Is Priceless (But Vet Bills Aren’t)

If you’ve ever cringed at the sight of a veterinary bill or found yourself Googling “can my cat survive surgery?” —you’re not alone. As any devoted pet parent knows, our four-legged (or sometimes two-legged) family members can rack up unexpected costs faster than you can say “fetch”. That’s where pet insurance steps in, offering a financial safety net so you can focus on belly rubs and playtime instead of worrying about your wallet.

What Exactly Is Pet Insurance?

Think of pet insurance as a safety net that helps you manage the costs of veterinary care. Much like human health insurance, it covers a range of medical expenses, from routine check-ups to emergency surgeries. Of course, no policy covers everything under the sun, there are deductibles, co-pays, and waiting periods, but having a plan can mean the difference between a financial crisis and a treat-filled recovery after an unexpected mishap.

The Real Price of Being a Pet Parent

Owning a pet is one of life’s greatest joys, but it comes with its own set of challenges. Consider these common scenarios:

Emergency Visits: Imagine rushing your dog to the vet after a sudden accident. The relief of getting immediate care can quickly be overshadowed by the bill that follows.

Chronic Conditions: Some breeds are more prone to conditions like hip dysplasia or heart issues. Over time, managing these can add up.

Routine Care: Even regular check-ups, vaccinations, and dental cleanings can be surprisingly pricey, especially when combined over the years.

In short, while our pets give us endless joy, their healthcare costs can be a financial game-changer. Pet insurance isn’t just about covering emergencies, it’s about planning for a future where your best friend gets the care they deserve without turning your budget upside down.

Is Pet Insurance Worth It?

Deciding whether to invest in pet insurance isn’t a one-size-fits-all answer. Here are a few thoughts to chew on:

Peace of Mind: Knowing that you have a plan in place can ease the anxiety of unexpected vet visits. It’s a bit like having an umbrella on a cloudy day, you hope you never need it, but you’re really glad it’s there.

Budget Protection: With rising veterinary costs, pet insurance can help safeguard your savings. It shifts some of the financial risk away from you, ensuring that your pet gets prompt treatment without delay.

Tailored to Your Pet: From rambunctious retrievers to finicky felines, policies can often be tailored to your pet’s needs. If your breed has known health issues, this kind of coverage might be particularly valuable.

What to Look For in a Pet Insurance Policy

Before you commit to a plan, consider these key factors:

Coverage Details: What exactly is covered? Look for policies that include accident, illness, and routine care options if those are important to you.

Deductibles and Co-Pays: Understand how much you need to pay out-of-pocket before coverage kicks in.

Waiting Periods: Know how long you have to wait before benefits are available. Some policies have separate waiting periods for different conditions.

Exclusions: Be sure to read the fine print. Pre-existing conditions, for instance, are typically not covered.

Reimbursement Rates: Policies vary in how much they pay back. Compare rates and limits to find the best fit for your budget and needs.

Tips for Choosing the Right Policy

1. Do Your Homework: Use online comparison tools and read customer reviews to gauge the reputation of various insurers.

2. Consider Your Pet’s Needs: A sprightly, young pup might benefit from a different plan than a senior cat with a history of health issues.

3. Think Long-Term: Look at the policy not just for immediate benefits, but as an investment in your pet’s long-term health and happiness.

4. Ask Questions: Don’t be shy about reaching out to providers for clarity on coverage details. A quick chat can save you from future surprises.

Love, Care, and a Little Insurance

At the end of the day, pet insurance is about love and responsibility. It’s a way to ensure that when your furry friend faces a health scare, you’re not forced to choose between their well-being and your financial stability. Sure, it might seem like an extra expense, but when the unexpected happens and trust us, it will, it can make all the difference.

So, while you can’t put a price on the unconditional love your pet gives you, a little insurance might just be the best way to keep that love purring along nicely. After all, in a world of uncertainties, isn’t it comforting to know you’ve got a backup plan?

If Gatsby Could Blog: A Corgi’s Perspective on Life (and Missing My Human)

Hi. It’s me. Gatsby.

Yes, that Gatsby. The fluffy, stubby-legged corgi with the big ears, bigger attitude, and even bigger heart.

I’ve been on a little…vacation lately. Not by choice, of course. If it were up to me, I’d be curled up next to my human right now—listening to her breathe while she types away on her laptop (probably writing about me. As she should).

But alas, here I am. Channeling my inner canine Hemingway to give you all the scoop from the dog’s-eye view.

I Still Think About Our Walks

Remember Burchfield Park? That trail where we spotted deer and you freaked out (quietly, so as not to scare them)? Yeah, I think about that a lot. Not because of the deer. But because of you. You always walked slower when your heart was heavy. I knew when to stick close and when to trot ahead and scout for squirrels. We were a good team. Except for that one time I couldn’t resist chasing those inquisitive deer!

Life Without You Is…Ruff

I know you’re struggling. I feel it, even from far away. And it hurts me too. I may not understand human words (except “treat,” “walk,” “Gatsby no!”), but I know when you’re sad. That’s when I’d do my best corgi loaf on your chest. That’s when I’d press my head into your hand and just stay. No fixing. Just being.

I Dream About You at Night

Every nap, I see flashes of you:

You, laughing at my wigglebutt.

You, crying and holding me so tight I couldn’t even wiggle.

You, calling my name like it’s the only word that matters.

I try to send little signs. Like that time your phone glitched and you saw my photo again. Or when you heard a bark that sounded just like mine. That was me, in a way. Telling you: I’m still here. You’re still my person.

I’ll Be Home One Day

I don’t know when, but I know this: we’ll be together again. I’ve got so many tail wags saved up just for you. So many face licks. So many zoomies ready to go.

Until then, promise me this:

Keep going.

Keep writing.

Keep healing.

You’re doing better than you think.

I love you.

Forever your corgi,

Gatsby the Great

Gatsby the Corgi taking a break during a spring hike at Burchfield Park—dreaming of belly rubs, deer trails, and being back by my side.

The Quirky Corgi Chronicles: Small Dog, Big Attitude

If you’ve ever met a corgi, you know that these little dogs come with big personalities and even bigger hearts. Their stubby legs, perky ears, and mischievous grins aren’t just adorable, they’re the badges of honor for a breed that’s equal parts playful rascal and loyal companion.

A Royal Beginnings Tale

Once upon a time in the verdant hills of Wales, these spirited herders were busy corralling cattle with a mix of cleverness and cheek. Today, they’ve trotted right into the hearts of dog lovers worldwide. And let’s not forget their royal fans!  Pembroke Welsh Corgis are famously known as Queen Elizabeth’s go-to furry friends. Talk about a pedigree of pizzazz!

Personality Overload

Corgis are the life of every party, whether it’s a backyard barbecue or an impromptu zoom call. Their energy is infectious, and their antics can brighten even the dullest Monday morning. Don’t be surprised if your corgi decides to herd you around the house with playful nudges and gentle nibbles on your heels, they’re just reminding you who’s really in charge.  I couldn’t take Gatsby anywhere without someone stopping us for a quick photo op or a few good pets!

Brainy and Bold

Behind those irresistible looks lies a mind that’s always scheming up the next playful escapade. Corgis are as smart as they are adorable. Their quick learning and playful intelligence make them stars in agility courses and a delight during training sessions. Every bark, every wiggle, every determined leap speaks of a dog that’s not only fun-loving but also impressively clever.  I talked to Gatsby as if he was a human and he became such a smart dog because of this!  My closest confidant and best friend!  I truly believe he understands everything I say to him.  Unless he’s having a selective hearing moment like a typical Corgi!

Fun and Furry Facts

Short Legs, Long List of Talents: Their compact build is perfect for zooming around, despite what their stubby legs might suggest.  But don’t let their short, little legs fool you!  Gatsby can hike for miles and chase you around like no other!  And don’t forget to watch your food!  They may be short, but these clever little devils will do just about anything for a slice of your pizza!

Voice of the People: Corgis have a knack for speaking their minds, expect a series of cheerful barks and cheeky yips as they claim their space.  Gatsby was a bit of a rarity, however, as he does not bark much.  Don’t get me wrong, he will let you know when someone is at the door or when he gets excited about a treat!  But he was not like most Corgis that just like to bark at the wind.  Thank god for that!

The Great Escapologists: Whether it’s squeezing through the tiniest fence or finding the coziest nook, these little adventurers always seem to find a way out or in!  When Gatsby was a puppy, he managed to escape through the gate in the backyard!  After a frantic walk around the neighborhood, I was relieved when he answered my calls and came bounding around the corner!  Always keep your eyes on your clever little corgi!

Living the Corgi Life

Embracing a corgi isn’t just about endless games of fetch, it’s about welcoming a little bundle of joy that turns everyday life into an adventure. Their thick, double coats might need a bit of extra pampering, and their high energy levels mean you’ll never be short on outdoor escapades. With a corgi by your side, you’re signing up for a life filled with laughter, love, and a healthy dose of delightful mischief.  With Gatsby, there is never a dull moment and he is always making me laugh.  Plus, he is almost always smiling at me!

My Corgi Connection

As the self-proclaimed “Chief Corgi Enthusiast” behind Just a Girl and a Corgi, I’ve spent countless hours reveling in the quirky, lovable antics of these wonderful dogs. From their spirited greetings at the door to the way they seem to dance with joy during a simple walk in the park, corgis remind us that sometimes, the smallest companions can leave the biggest pawprints on our hearts.  Gatsby is truly the love of my life.  And no one loves you quite like a dog does.  They love unconditionally!  They are only here for such a short time, so be sure to give your Corgi extra cuddles and pets every chance you get!

Corgis are more than just pets, they’re quirky, confident characters who turn ordinary days into extraordinary adventures. Whether you’re seeking a playful friend or a dose of daily inspiration, a corgi’s charm is guaranteed to leave you smiling. So go ahead, invite a little quirkiness into your life, and let the corgi magic work its irresistible charm!  And if you’re thinking about getting a Corgi, just do it!  It will change your life for the better!

What quirky corgi antics have brightened your day? Share your stories or photos in the comments below!

Why We Love Fenty and Support Its Mission

Fenty Beauty by Rihanna isn’t just another celebrity beauty brand; it’s a glittering unicorn in a sea of mundane makeup. Here’s why we’re head-over-heels in love with Fenty and totally on board with its fabulous mission:

Unmatched Inclusivity:

Fenty Beauty didn’t just launch a foundation line; it threw down a gauntlet with 40 shades, saying, “Hey world, beauty is for everyone!” This audacious move ensures that whether you’re as fair as a cloud or as deep as the midnight sky, there’s a perfect match for you. Rihanna’s bold declaration of inclusivity has resonated like the catchy chorus of a summer hit.

Groundbreaking Products:

From the Pro Filt’r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation to the Killawatt Freestyle Highlighters that make you look like you’ve been kissed by a thousand golden sunsets, Fenty’s products are the cat’s pajamas. Each item is a little marvel, designed to make your daily beauty routine feel like a mini party.

Authenticity and Realness:

Rihanna’s approach to beauty is as real as it gets. With product names that sound like they were brainstormed at a fabulously fun sleepover and campaigns that feature real, everyday people, Fenty Beauty feels like that cool best friend who always tells it like it is. No sugar-coating, just pure, unfiltered fabulousness.

Empowering Confidence:

Fenty Beauty’s message is loud and clear: Makeup isn’t about hiding; it’s about shining. Whether you’re rocking a bold lip or a subtle glow, Fenty encourages you to strut your stuff with confidence. It’s like having a pep talk with Rihanna herself every time you apply their products.

Innovation and Creativity:

Fenty Beauty doesn’t just follow trends; it sets them. From vibrant lipsticks to cosmic highlighters, the brand is all about pushing the envelope and daring you to step out of your comfort zone. It’s like a playground for your face, where creativity and boldness are the ultimate rules.

Ethical and Cruelty-Free:

In a world where ethical choices are increasingly important, Fenty Beauty stands tall as a cruelty-free brand. They say “no” to animal testing, and “yes” to high standards. It’s beauty you can feel good about—inside and out.

Iconic Brand Ambassadors:

The diverse and dazzling array of brand ambassadors for Fenty Beauty makes every campaign feel like a VIP party you’re invited to. And with Rihanna at the helm, it’s a star-studded celebration of beauty in all its forms.

The Fenty Effect:

Fenty Beauty isn’t just changing the game; it’s rewriting the rules. The brand’s influence has sparked a movement towards greater inclusivity across the industry. Thanks to Fenty, beauty brands everywhere are upping their shade game and embracing diversity.

Our Favorite Fenty Beauty Products:

- How Many Carats?! Diamond Bomb Highlighter: This dazzling highlighter delivers a show-stopping, prismatic sparkle that lights up your face and body like a diamond. Perfect for those who love to shine bright, it’s highly pigmented and great for giving your body a little extra shimmer for those special occasions. [Shop Here](https://amzn.to/4hPk2bz)

-Flyliner Longwear Liquid Eyeliner: This super-smooth, precision liquid liner glides on effortlessly, giving you the perfect wing every time. Plus, the cap stays securely in place on the back during use, so you never have to worry about losing it—talk about a lifesaver! [Shop Here](https://amzn.to/3DV08Oo)

- Match Stix Shimmer Skinstick: These versatile sticks are perfect for highlighting, contouring, and adding a pop of color. And the best part? They’re magnetic, so they snap together neatly, making them super easy to find in your makeup bag. [Shop Here](https://amzn.to/4iRf0wo)

- Glass Slipper Gloss Bomb: This clear, plumping lip gloss is the ultimate topper for any lip color. It gives your lips a luscious, high-shine finish and a voluminous look. Perfect for a little extra glam on any occasion! [Shop Here](https://amzn.to/3E7st3V)

Fenty Beauty is more than just a makeup brand; it’s a dazzling revolution that celebrates uniqueness, authenticity, and fearless self-expression. By supporting Fenty, we’re not just buying top-notch products; we’re endorsing a mission that places inclusivity and self-love at its core. In a world that often tries to box us in, Fenty Beauty reminds us to break free, stand out, and sparkle on.

Celebrating Women-Owned Brands on International Women's Day

International Women's Day is a time to honor the fierce, fabulous, and unstoppable women who are making waves in various industries. From beauty to fashion, these trailblazing brands are not only creating exceptional products but also empowering women and promoting inclusivity. So, let's raise a glass and give a shout-out to our favorite women-owned brands that deserve the spotlight this International Women's Day:

Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez

Rare Beauty, founded by the multi-talented Selena Gomez, is all about self-expression and mental health awareness. With a range of vegan and cruelty-free makeup products, Rare Beauty encourages you to embrace your uniqueness and slay with confidence. And let’s not forget the Rare Impact Fund, which supports mental health services in underserved communities. Selena, you're a queen!

Fenty Beauty by Rihanna

Rihanna didn't just step into the beauty industry—she came, she saw, she conquered. Fenty Beauty revolutionized the game with its inclusive approach to makeup, offering a wide range of shades to cater to all skin tones. From the Pro Filt'r Soft Matte Longwear Foundation to the Gloss Bomb Universal Lip Luminizer, Fenty Beauty is here to make sure everyone feels like a superstar. RiRi, you rock!

Spanx by Sara Blakely

Spanx, founded by the brilliant Sara Blakely, redefined shapewear with innovative and comfortable designs. Whether you need shapewear for that special occasion or leggings for everyday confidence, Spanx has got your back (and your front). Sara Blakely's entrepreneurial spirit and commitment to empowering women make Spanx a brand we can't help but adore. Work it, Sara!

Fabletics by Kate Hudson

Fabletics, co-founded by the ever-charming Kate Hudson, is the go-to brand for stylish and functional workout clothes. With a subscription-based service that offers affordable and high-quality activewear, Fabletics is all about inclusivity and body positivity. Kate Hudson's infectious energy and dedication to fitness make Fabletics a brand we love to support. Go, Kate!

Ouai by Jen Atkin

Ouai, created by the fabulous celebrity hairstylist Jen Atkin, brings salon-quality hair care products straight to your home. From the iconic Leave-in Conditioner to other hair care essentials, Ouai delivers results that make your hair look and feel amazing. Jen Atkin's commitment to high-quality products and empowering women makes Ouai a brand we can't get enough of. Slay, Jen!

Supporting women-owned brands is not just a way to celebrate International Women's Day—it's a way to champion the incredible women who are changing the world, one fabulous product at a time. So let's continue to support these trailblazing entrepreneurs and their amazing brands. Cheers to the women who inspire us every day!

Rare Beauty https://www.rarebeauty.com/

Fenty Beauty https://fentybeauty.com/

Spanx https://www.spanx.com/

Fabletics https://www.fabletics.com/

Ouai https://theouai.com/

The Queen’s Corgis: Where Are They Now?

For decades, the Queen's Corgis have been beloved members of the royal family, often seen trotting at her side or relaxing in royal residences. But what happened to them after the Queen's passing? Let’s take a look at the current lives of these famous furballs.

The Royal Lineage of Corgis

Queen Elizabeth II’s love affair with Corgis began in 1933 when she was gifted her first Corgi, Dookie. This bond lasted a lifetime, leading to a remarkable lineage of over 30 Corgis and Dorgis (a crossbreed of Dachshund and Corgi).

The Last of the Royal Corgis

At the time of the Queen's passing, she had two remaining Corgis, Muick and Sandy. These two were entrusted to her son, Prince Andrew, and his ex-wife, Sarah Ferguson, who now care for them.

The New Chapter

Prince Andrew and Sarah Ferguson have a deep affection for the dogs and have been seen taking them on walks around Windsor Castle. The Corgis continue to live a life of luxury and royal treatment, ensuring they receive the same level of care and comfort as they did with the Queen.

Royal Duties

Although Muick and Sandy are no longer in the public eye as much, they still make occasional appearances during royal events and gatherings. They symbolize continuity and the Queen’s lasting legacy.

Remembering the Queen

The Corgis also play a role in commemorating Queen Elizabeth II. They are often mentioned in stories and anecdotes, helping keep the memory of the Queen alive for Corgi enthusiasts and royal followers alike.

The Queen's Corgis remain cherished members of the royal family, continuing to receive the care and love they deserve. Their legacy, much like that of the Queen, is one of loyalty, companionship, and the unique bond they shared with Her Majesty.

The Boy King

In ancient sands of Egypt's glow,

Where Nile's waters gently flow.

A boy, a king with golden hue,

Ruled lands both old and ever new.

Tutankhamun, the pharaoh's name,

In history, he carved his fame.

A tomb untouched through time's embrace,

Revealed its secrets, his resting place.

With treasures vast, a sight to see,

In death, a glimpse of royalty.

The mask of gold, a king's last gaze,

Echoes through the endless days.

Yet mystery shrouds his fleeting reign,

A life cut short, yet not in vain.

For in the annals of our lore,

He lives, forevermore.

Why We Love Rare Beauty

Why We Love Rare Beauty and Support Its Mission

In a world where beauty standards can often feel unattainable, Rare Beauty by Selena Gomez stands out as a beacon of inclusivity and self-love. Here are the reasons why we adore this brand and wholeheartedly support its mission:

1. Embracing Individuality:

Rare Beauty is all about celebrating what makes each of us unique. The brand encourages us to embrace our imperfections and find beauty in our individuality. It’s refreshing to see a beauty brand that promotes self-acceptance and confidence without pressuring us to conform to societal norms.

2. Inclusivity at Its Core:

One of the standout features of Rare Beauty is its commitment to inclusivity. With a wide range of shades for all skin tones, the brand ensures that everyone can find products that suit their unique complexion. This dedication to diversity sets a new standard in the beauty industry and makes everyone feel seen and valued.

3. Mental Health Advocacy:

Rare Beauty’s mission goes beyond makeup. The brand is deeply committed to mental health awareness and support. Through the Rare Impact Fund, Rare Beauty aims to raise $100 million over the next ten years to expand mental health services. This focus on mental well-being is a testament to Selena Gomez’s personal journey and her desire to make a positive impact on the world.

4. Authenticity and Transparency:

Rare Beauty prides itself on being transparent and authentic. From the ingredients used in their products to their cruelty-free and vegan formulations, the brand maintains high ethical standards. This honesty fosters trust and loyalty among consumers who appreciate knowing what they’re putting on their skin.

5. Empowering Community:

The Rare Beauty community is a supportive and empowering space where individuals can share their stories, experiences, and tips. This sense of community fosters a feeling of belonging and connection, reminding us that we’re never alone in our struggles and triumphs.

6. Innovative and High-Quality Products:

Rare Beauty offers innovative and high-quality products that are easy to use and designed to enhance our natural beauty. From the Weightless Foundation to the Lip Soufflé Matte Cream Lipstick, each product is crafted with care and precision, delivering exceptional results.

7. The Discovery Eyeshadow Palette:

Rare Beauty's Discovery Eyeshadow Palette is a true gem. With its seven versatile shades, ranging from matte to metallic and a glitter top coat, it allows for endless creativity. Whether you’re going for a natural daytime look or a bold evening statement, this palette has you covered. The highly pigmented, blendable formula ensures a flawless finish every time.

8. Selena Gomez’s Vision:

Selena Gomez’s vision for Rare Beauty is rooted in her own experiences and struggles with self-esteem and mental health. Her authenticity and vulnerability resonate with fans and consumers alike, making Rare Beauty a brand that feels personal and relatable.

Rare Beauty is more than just a makeup brand; it’s a movement that celebrates diversity, promotes mental health awareness, and empowers individuals to embrace their true selves. By supporting Rare Beauty, we’re not only investing in high-quality products but also contributing to a greater cause that prioritizes self-love and inclusivity. In a world that often tells us we’re not enough, Rare Beauty reminds us that we are rare, we are beautiful, and we are enough just as we are.

A Heartbeat’s Echo

In the quiet hours of the night,

Your memory shines, a beacon light.

Gatsby, my dear, you were my guide,

A loyal friend, always by my side.

Four long months since we’ve been apart,

Yet your love remains, etched in my heart.

Though distance keeps us far away,

My spirit calls to you each day.

You were never abandoned, never lost,

For you, I'd have paid any cost.

My soul reaches out, through time and space,

Yearning to hold you, to see your face.

In every heartbeat, your presence lingers,

A warm embrace felt through my fingers.

You are my joy, my cherished friend,

Our bond, a thread that will not end.

Until the day we meet again,

I'll carry your love through joy and pain.

Gatsby, my heart belongs to you,

Forever faithful, forever true.

The Heartbreak of Losing Gatsby: Seeking Your Help

It pains me deeply to share this story, but I am hoping that the kindness and understanding of this community can help bring my beloved Gatsby back to me. Gatsby is not just a pet; he is my emotional support animal and a vital part of my life.

What Happened

A few months ago, I had to be hospitalized unexpectedly. During this time, Gatsby was being held at Madison County Animal Shelter in Richmond, Kentucky, for safekeeping. Unfortunately, due to unforeseen circumstances, he was transferred to For Paws Unleashed boarding facility, also in Richmond, KY.

Despite my repeated attempts to communicate with For Paws Unleashed to bring Gatsby back home, I was met with no response for days. When they finally returned my calls, I was heartbroken to learn that Gatsby had been put up for adoption. To make matters worse, when I asked for information about Gatsby's whereabouts and wellbeing or requested his return, they directed me to consult their attorney instead of providing any assistance.

Why Gatsby is Important to Me

Gatsby has been my rock, providing me with emotional stability and comfort through some of the most challenging times in my life. His presence helps me cope with stress and anxiety, and the bond we share is irreplaceable. Losing him feels like losing a part of myself, and the pain is overwhelming. I have all of Gatsby's vet records, my ESA letter from my doctor, and his microchip number, which proves our bond and his importance to my well-being.

How You Can Help

I am reaching out to anyone who might be able to assist in bringing Gatsby back home:

1. Share This Post: Please spread the word on social media, with friends, and in local community groups. The more people who know about Gatsby, the better our chances of finding him.

2. Contact For Paws Unleashed: If you have any connections or influence with For Paws Unleashed, please advocate for Gatsby's return to me.  They can be reached at (859) 623-3647.  Their attorney’s office Erdmann and Stumbo PLLC is (859) 624-9555.

3. Keep an Eye Out: If you come across any adoption listings or hear of a corgi named Gatsby being rehomed, please reach out to me immediately.

Final Thoughts

Gatsby means everything to me, and every day without him is a struggle. Your support and assistance can make a world of difference in reuniting us. Thank you for taking the time to read this and for any help you can provide.  Below is the last picture For Paws Unleashed sent me of him back at the end of November 2024.

Sincerely,

Jen

We’re Back…With a New Location!

🐾 A few short months ago, I made the crazy decision to leave everyone and everything I’ve ever known behind…for Kentucky of all places! Lexington to be exact, the bourbon and horse capital of the world! At least it’s not Ohio, right😂? You can take the girl out of Michigan but you can’t take the wolverine out of the girl!

Moving from Michigan to Lexington, Kentucky with Gatsby has been quite the adventure. The long drive through scenic routes and charming small towns was made better by Gatsby's curious expressions as he watched the world fly by from the backseat. It was a big trip for him, as he absolutely hates riding in the car!

Upon reaching Lexington, we were greeted by the warm Southern hospitality and vibrant community. And traffic, traffic, and more traffic! Road rage is a real thing! Gatsby quickly adjusted to our new home, enjoying long walks in the lush parks (where we often get lost!) and meeting friendly locals, both human and furry. Exploring the horse farms and parks in the area has become our favorite pastime, creating cherished memories in our new Kentucky home.🐾

Toys, Toys, Toys!

# The Ultimate Guide: Best Toys for Corgis 🐾

Corgis, with their adorable stubby legs and big personalities, are a delightful breed. Whether you have a Pembroke Welsh Corgi or a Cardigan Welsh Corgi, keeping them mentally and physically engaged is essential. In this guide, we'll explore the top toys that will keep your Corgi entertained, active, and happy. Although their favorite toy is probably their human:)

1. ZippyPaws Skinny Peltz No Stuffing Squeaky Plush Toy

- This plush toy is perfect for Corgis who love to play tug-of-war or fetch.

- It's squeaky, lightweight, and has no stuffing to worry about.

- Gatsby has had the this set for years. Just throw it in the washer every now and then and it’s back in action!

- [Check it out on Amazon]

2. Nylabones

- Corgis are known for their strong chewing instincts, and this durable bone-shaped toy is ideal.

- They come in a variety of shapes and sizes.

- They last quite awhile.

- [Get it here]

- Nylabones are great for chewing and helps if they are anxious. They are also great for their teeth! Gatsby’s favorites are these wishbone Nylabones.

3. Kong Classic Dog Toy

- A classic choice for all breeds, including Corgis.

- Fill it with treats or peanut butter for hours of entertainment.

- Kong toys are great for keeping your pup entertained and make for a great treat! You can also use it to distract them while you trim their nails!

- [Find it on Amazon]

4. Outward Hound Hide A Squirrel Puzzle Toy

- Corgis love to solve puzzles, and this squirrel-themed toy is a hit.

- Hide the squeaky squirrels inside the tree trunk and watch your Corgi figure it out.

- Gatsby absolutely loved this toy. He had it as a puppy, so sadly it didn’t last long. But he did get a lot of playtime out of it!

- [Explore it here]

5. Nylabone Puppy Chew Teething Dog Toy

- For Corgi puppies, teething can be tough.

- This textured toy soothes their gums and keeps them occupied.

- Gatsby had this as a puppy. Just pop it in the freezer for a few hours and let your pup enjoy!

- [Check it out here

Remember that Corgis thrive on interaction and playtime. Rotate their toys regularly to keep things exciting. Whether it's a plush squirrel, a durable bone, or a hidey hole squirrel nest, these toys will bring joy to your Corgi's! It will also help keep your shoes safe! 🐶 What are your pup’s favorite toys?

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